The holidays are a perfect time to teach your children the value of giving back. In my opinion, giving back can build confidence and self-esteem in children (no, I don’t have any documentation to back that up, just 20 years of parenting experience). Teaching children to give back is one of the easiest things we can do as parents.
Here are a few of my favorite ways to teach children the power of giving back.
1. Talk about giving. Tell your kids which causes you’re supporting this year and why. Better yet, make the choice together. Or give each child a portion of what you plan to donate this year and allow him or her to choose the charity.
2. Do something fun, like cooking or an art project. Even very young children can make cards for senior center residents or help you bake a tasty treat for a neighbor. These are perfect ways to have fun while thinking about others.
3. Acknowledge and celebrate all kinds of giving acts. Whether your child volunteers, donates allowance, helps a friend or neighbor, or is simply being kind to a sibling, be sure to praise the effort.
4. Volunteer together. Whether serving a meal at a soup kitchen or lending a hand at an animal shelter, volunteering helps kids learn compassion – and it’s a great way for families to spend time together. Check with your child’s school, your religious institution, a local Boys & Girls Club or The Volunteer Family for project ideas.

This year the Boys & Girls Club of America is celebrating their 2nd Annual Give the Gift of a Great Future Holiday Campaign. This campaign helps the Boys & Girls Club of America to fulfill their mission:
To enable all young people, especially those who need us most,
to reach their full potential as productive, caring, responsible citizens.
You can be a part of this fabulous campaign by making a donation or purchasing an item(s) from a participating vendor.

To show your children how easy it can be to give back BGCA has created the Giving Game. Play the game with your child and a gift will be donated to a Club this holiday season. Play here. The game is easy to play and only takes about 30 seconds.

Additionally, BGCA is asking for readers to vote in the Kids Give Back photo contest which award the wining club a $2500 scholarship! Vote here.
Please be a part of giving kids the gift of a bright and happy future by participating in the Boys & Girls Club of America Holiday Campaign.
I participated in a campaign on behalf of Mom Central Consulting for Boys and Girls Clubs of America. I received a promotional item as a thank-you for participating.
Happy Holidays!

I think this is so important. We are trying to teach JDaniel to serve others too.
This is great. It is so important this time of year to give back!
It is important to teach your children about caring and giving while they are young so that it is natural when they get older!! Nice touch for the Boys and Girls Club of America to think up this game to make it fun for the kids as well–I will certainly look out for these products when I shop
I love this organization! My best friends husband works for them. I love how nuturing they are and how they give to these kids.
Nice post!! I love the BGCA! They help so many kids!!
That’s awesome to teach the kids about giving back! We rang the bell for the Salvation Army this year and bought for a child off of the Angel Tree
I love the emphasis on giving back. One year we did an angel tree purchase. another year we donated what we could gather to a local shelter. And always we do it together as a family. I think that part is especially important.
This is very important for our family, we give back alot. My husband works for BGC, Great way to give back.
i have always been a supporter of the BGCA! I attended when I was a child, so they are near and dear to me. There is not better lesson to teach our children then compassion. Thanks!
I’m with ya girl – I also think giving back can build confidence and self-esteem in children. I love Brody’s Christian preschool – they seem to teach this – I see it in my son.
Building and training generous children is totally the way to go! My kids are just as excited about helping others as getting stuff, and I love that they are like this!